Kyorisa, thank you very much! I think I'm beginning to get a glimmer here
One of her kittens has the Domino fur, and Illume Shade with Soft Fold ears. I was thinking the shade and ears must have come from my lil RFL kitty bec the Daddy does not show any of those nor do his parents. He does have Gen Meadow eyes though so I suppose those could have come from Daddy rather than Mummy.
and thankyou, yes I am so glad to have gotten her. She is one I will keep permanently
she has the sweetest lil face which I fell in love with the first time I saw her